There is one thing you should
know about yourself before you get into a relationship with another person: Are
you an introvert or an extrovert? This question is vitally important because,
depending on the answer, it can make or break the relationship. Introverts
process internally, and they need time to themselves throughout the day. Social
settings tend to drain their energy. Extroverts process externally, often
talking out what they think about. Alone time can be boring and energy
draining, and they love being in crowds.
It does not matter whether your potential partner is the same as you; what
matters is that you recognize which they are and which you are. Two introverts
(or extroverts) can live a great life together. However, if you are an
introvert, like me, and you happen to hit it off with an extrovert, like I did
with my wife, life will take you down a wondrous journey. But the one thing
that has kept our marriage together is understanding, and complimenting, the
differences between us.
Are You an Innie or An Outtie?
